Tuesday, July 24, 2007

FAB-LEE-OUS

Or, it just doesn't get any better than this.

Today for our lunch I made French toast using "Texas Toast" bread. We added "special sugar" (confectioners sugar) on top for that Jersey Diner touch. Oh, it was yummy. The kids were happy, and Little Brother told me that I make "fab-lee-ous" French toast. The other kids agreed.

Just now I read an article that Julie D. highlighted in her recipe blog. The title: Is Cooking for Your Family Retrograde June Cleaver Nonsense?


Just because I wear my fab-lee-ous apron when I cook for my family doesn't make me June Cleaver. For one thing, the pearls and heels are JUST not me. My taste runs more toward capri pants and Keds.

I cook for my family because:
I enjoy cooking.
My family enjoys eating.
It's good for my family to eat wholesome, home-cooked food rather than nutritionally-deficient fast food.
It's good for my family's budget to eat at home.
Eating meals together is good for the family.

Sometimes it seems that people who don't respect some women's choice to nurture their families in their homes believe that the kind of work we do in order to nurture our families in our homes has no value.

I disagree. There's no work with a higher value. And frankly, some parts of the work I do are things you could never pay me for. Good thing I have Little Brother to help me clean the toilets. Ick. This work is what we do for love, and there's no price to be put on it.

And now, if you'll excuse me, I'm going to get a few things together to start our dinner for tonight.

Monday, July 23, 2007

There can never be too many prayers

Please be generous--why not even be extravagant--with your prayers for a young man who was critically injured in a hiking accident. Bryant, as well as his mom and the medical team responsible for his care, are surely in need of our prayers at this time. This young man is a friend of Donna-Marie Cooper O'Boyle's children. Just think of how you would feel if he were your son, or a friend of your son. And then pray, pray, pray. That's the thing about prayer--you can help someone anytime, anywhere.

Carbo-Loading

When Little Brother came downstairs this morning, he found me eating toast with jelly (leftover Portuguese bread from last night's dinner makes fabulous toast, especially topped with blackberry jelly.)

Little Brother wanted some toast too. So I put a couple of slices of "reg-lee-ar" bread in the toaster for him. He thinks that Portuguese bread will not be good when it's hot. Silly boy--but more for me....

After I started the toaster, he gave me my Good-Morning Hug. Then he told me that after TheDad has his shower, they're going to make pancakes together.

"Pancakes?! Then why did I just make you some toast?"

"For a little snack!"

Saturday, July 21, 2007

Harry Potter and Cranky Teenagers

Big Brother was up early yesterday for cross-country practice, and was up late last night, waiting with his friends for his copy of the last Harry Potter novel.

He's cranky today, as evidenced by the following:

BB: "It's hot in here."

Me: "It's a beautiful day with a great breeze. It's not hot at all!" (in fact, I'm wearing jeans, and he's got shorts on, and we're in the same room reading, and he's the only uncomfortable one).

BB: "It's hot."

Me: "Perhaps if you took your shower you'd cool off a little."

BB: "I'm reading a book."

Me: "Does that mean you won't be taking a shower until you finish Harry Potter?" (EWWWWW!)

At this point he tried to stun me with the Teenage Glare of Death, but fortunately my own Mother Glare--the "You've gone too far this time, buddy" look--triumphed.

Syrian Cheese and Watermelon


The Kitchen Madonna's watermelon salad recipes made me remember this from my childhood:

Every summer there would be a Big Family Picnic at the Harrington house. Of course, everyone would bring their special favorites and signature dishes. Nanny would bring potato salad, Catherine would bring macaroni salad with tuna, Leo would bring some beefsteak--to be sauteed in butter and served on slices of bread, and there were plenty of other picnic favorites as well. There was always a big watermelon on ice, waiting for someone to slice it open after dinner--and we kids would line up for our juicy, sweet slices of melon.

A new favorite was introduced into the mix when my aunt Eileen married a guy whose parents were born in Syria. Louie brought Syrian "string cheese" to the picnic. Some of my cousins had never seen Syrian cheese before the picnic, and they weren't sure what to make of it.

"How do you eat this?" they asked Louie, who was shredding the cheese into a big bowl.

"Go get a slice of watermelon," he instructed them. After they'd done that, he said, "Now poke out all the pits with your finger. See how that leaves holes in the watermelon? Now stick these shreds of cheese in the holes, and just eat it."

He was teasing them, but they had no clue. All of us kids tried it. All of us loved it! The salty cheese, the sweet watermelon--they were perfect together.

And I'm sure you've all guessed now what will be on my shopping list for next week. (I can't get Syrian cheese around here, but Armenian cheese is pretty close and readily available).

All-Nighter

It's going to be a loooooooooooooong day.

Not for me--I went to bed at a slightly-later-than-reasonable hour.

But Middle Sister had two friends sleep over last night, and they Never Went to Sleep.

As best I can tell, they spent the night eating pizza, watching movies, eating cookies, watching movies, eating potato chips, watching movies, and spilling iced tea. Or maybe it was Cherry Coke.

At least they wiped up whatever it was they spilled. (Did you know that when you wipe up tea with a brand-new white kitchen towel, and don't wash it out right away, that towel will never be white again? Apparently these girls do not know this, and they want me to have tan kitchen towels. Their decorating decision--not mine.)

When I came downstairs half an hour ago and found them all still up, they headed upstairs to Middle Sister's room where the Giant Air Mattress (that TheDad uses at camp) awaited them. Fueled by all those Oreos and whatever Cherry Coke they didn't spill, they're not ready to sleep. They are bouncing off the walls in there. They are LOUD.

I took it upon myself to go deliver the Threat that Usually Makes Tween Girls Shut Right Up: "If you wake up Little Brother, he is all yours. I will send him in here and tell him that you want to play with him. I will not rescue you from Little Brother and I will not let you sneak away from him. Got it? Do not wake up Little Brother unless you want him in your faces for the rest of the day."

I guess they want Little Brother in there, because they are still loud, still bouncing around on TheDad's air mattress, and there are frequent thumps as someone hits the floor. I'm amazed that he's sleeping through this.

My friend SFO Girl (whom you may know from the comments box) has four teen daughters. She never calls these events "sleepovers." Her word is "awake-overs." And Middle Sister has just shown me why.

Thursday, July 19, 2007

Secret Password

I told Little Brother that it was time for me to go get ready so we can go to Storytime at the library soon.

"Not unless you can say the word I spell. N-O-E-E," he challenged me.

"Hmmm...no-eeee?" I guessed.

"Nope!" he answered gleefully.

"OK, I don't know it then. What is it?"

He told me the secret: "Curious George!"

A Totally Serious Question

This morning, Little Brother wanted to know:

"Mom, is coffee ice cream hot, or cold?"

Wednesday, July 18, 2007

Serenity Now!

There are some jobs that, as a homemaker, I like more than others. I'm not so big on washing windows, vacuuming or dusting. My favorite work is cooking, planning, laundry and ironing.

I don't iron a few items a day, just what I am going to wear that day, like my mom has always done. She has that ironing board up and down all the time. I tend to take a block of time and iron a whole pile of things at once. This gets done about once a week. In the fall, I enjoy ironing while watching Notre Dame football games. The rest of the year, I watch the news, cooking shows, or home-decorating shows while I iron.

This afternoon as the thunderstorms passed overhead and I ironed and hung up a week's worth of clothes, the kids played downstairs. It was all very calming, so much so that when I heard a loud CRASH, I looked up from pressing my Generalissimama apron and hollered down the stairs, "What are you guys breaking?"

I still don't know what the CRASH was. I'm not sure I want to. I think I will go back and iron some more.

A Beautiful Prayer for Strength in our Mission

by Pope Benedict XVI:

Stay with us, Lord, keep us company, even though we have not always recognized you. Stay with us, because all around us the shadows are deepening, and you are the Light; discouragement is eating its way into our hearts: make them burn with the certainty of Easter. We are tired of the journey, but you comfort us in the breaking of bread, so that we are able to proclaim to our brothers and sisters that you have truly risen and have entrusted us with the mission of being witnesses of your resurrection.

Stay with us, Lord, when mists of doubt, weariness or difficulty rise up around our Catholic faith; you are Truth itself, you are the one who reveals the Father to us: enlighten our minds with your word, and help us to experience the beauty of believing in you.

Remain in our families, enlighten them in their doubts, sustain them in their difficulties, console them in their sufferings and in their daily labours, when around them shadows build up which threaten their unity and their natural identity. You are Life itself: remain in our homes, so that they may continue to be nests where human life is generously born, where life is welcomed, loved and respected from conception to natural death.

Remain, Lord, with those in our societies who are most vulnerable; remain with the poor and the lowly, with indigenous peoples and Afro-Americans, who have not always found space and support to express the richness of their culture and the wisdom of their identity.

Remain, Lord, with our children and with our young people, who are the hope and the treasure of our Continent, protect them from so many snares that attack their innocence and their legitimate hopes. O Good Shepherd, remain with our elderly and with our sick. Strengthen them all in faith, so that they may be your disciples and missionaries!


Hat tip to Fr. Daren at Servant and Steward for this prayer. Add his blog to your blogroll or feed-reader. You won't be disappointed.


Tuesday, July 17, 2007

How cool is that?

Do you like my cool new header? It's a gift from fellow blogger (and fellow NJ native) Esther, the Hawaii Catholic Mom, who does some fabulous artwork! I think it's just gorgeous, and it sure does spruce up the looks of my blog. Thank you so much, Esther!

Monday, July 16, 2007

Back to Monday, Back to Normal

It's so nice having everyone back here where they belong!

This morning was a typical normal Monday with TheDad off to work, Little Brother asking where Daddy is, me indulging Little Brother in an extra round of "Trouble" since he is sad about Daddy being at work instead of home playing with him, all the usual stuff.

And this morning I climbed into my van for the first time in more than eight days and viewed the world from my familiar driver's seat. I adjusted my seat and steering wheel, then used the mirror-setting tips I read about on Bettnet to get everything set up for maximum comfort and road-viewability (when you're as short as I am, having a bird's-eye view of the road is not an easy achievement).

Then I turned on the ignition and was assaulted by TheDad's music selection (the 80s station on XM). I fixed THAT really quickly. The 70s is my decade of choice, thankyouverymuch, and I seriously missed my commercial-free musical nostalgia while driving TheDad's car all last week, though I did enjoy zipping around in a little sedan, easy parking, and how quickly the air-conditioning cools the hot car interior.

But I'm definitely a creature of habit, as my family would tell you, and it was comforting to me to have my car back, even if it does carry a good bit of Virginia soil on its exterior and more than a few Dr. Pepper bottles are rolling around the interior. I think a couple of Boy Scouts owe me a car-wash and detailing.

Saturday, July 14, 2007

The Campers are Home!

They're safe. They're happy. They're FILTHY.

I don't normally do laundry on Sundays, but I can't leave all this smelly stuff too long. So after their showers, I'll be starting a 24-hour laundry marathon. We're beginning to realize, though, that those showers could take a while. This is the first indoor plumbing they've enjoyed in over a week.

Saying Goodbye, in Pictures and a Recipe

My great-aunt Anna has made an agreement with a buyer and will likely sell her house before the end of the summer. She's lived alone in this house for almost four years now, and has recovered from a stroke and knee surgery in the past two years. She's moving to an apartment in a retirement community and won't have to worry about maintenance and safety. I pray that she'll have many happy, healthy years there.

The places where you spend your childhood stay with you for a long time. This is the last house that I associate with the days when I was under 10; both my grandmothers have passed away and their homes have been sold, and my parents moved out of our childhood home four years ago. They are just houses, but they hold many memories for me.

I spent a large, happy chunk of my childhood in this house. When we were kids, every Saturday morning we'd come here after my sister's allergy shot. We'd visit with Grandpa (our great-grandfather), our great-uncle James, and our great-aunts Rose and Anna. Rose would be finishing up the vacuuming when we got there. Anna would make pancakes if it was early, or tuna-fish sandwiches if it was closer to lunchtime. We'd hang out in the family room playing "Trouble" and watching "Scooby Doo," "Josie and the Pussycats," and "The Jetsons." Grandpa would tell us stories and teach us to sing "Goodbye My Coney Island Baby" and the refrain to "Marching through Georgia." He's the reason I still love to hear barbershop quartets.

On nice days, we'd play in the backyard under the big pine trees. Every summer there would be a big family picnic back here. The volleyball net would stretch from the edge of the trees to the patio. Picnic tables were under the trees, in the shade.

We figured out that you could write your name, or messages, in the pile on the living room carpet. Rose never liked when we did that, but we did it anyway. Sometimes we'd vault over the back of the sofa into the dining room. We'd look at the big picture of an autumn scene that always hung over the back of the couch. There was a little organ tucked near the stairs and we'd pick out some tunes on it. I always liked practicing my beginner's piano lesson on that organ.

In this kitchen, there was always something cold for kids to drink, in an Archie glass. No plastic cups in this house--we used glasses and never broke one. (If Anna ever decides to give away those glasses, you can bet there will be at least five nieces and nephews fighting over them). In this kitchen, we learned to sing "Zippity-Doo-Dah" and other happy songs. In this kitchen, Anna made her famous vegetable soup and fabulous Thanksgiving dinners. Only real butter was served, and it was always soft because it was never put in the refrigerator. I think they went through a stick of butter in less than a day, so it didn't have time to go bad!

Here's the recipe for Harrington Tuna, otherwise known as Nostalgia on a Plate:
1 can solid white tuna
Miracle whip
Soft butter
Wonder bread

Mix tuna with miracle whip. Spread softened butter generously on two slices of bread. Add tuna and cut on the diagonal.

After lunch you can have two Hydrox cookies for dessert. Don't fight with your brother and sister over who gets the Jughead glass. There are enough Archie glasses to go around.

Good times.

Friday, July 13, 2007

Mad Money

I'm saving up.
I know where I'm going to spend it.
But which one do I spend it on?






Or maybe one of the other gorgeous aprons that the Kitchen Madonna has been whipping up. I know she's been ordering some fabrics for fall....
Well, maybe by the time I reach my "mad money goal" I'll have made up my mind!


Wednesday, July 11, 2007

5 Things I Love About Jesus


Ellen and Denise tagged me for this meme. Here are the rules:
Those tagged will share 5 things they love about Jesus.
Those tagged will tag 5 other bloggers.
Those tagged will provide a link in the combox here with their name so that others can read them.

I figured that since we have the words of Jesus in the Gospels, I’d use some of them to explain why I love Jesus:
1. “The words I have spoken to you are spirit and life.” John 6:64
2. “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” John 8:12
3. “I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, even if he dies, will live, and everyone who lives and believes in me will never die.” John 11:25-26
4. “I have given you a model to follow, so that as I have done for you, you should also do.” John 13:15
5. “This is my body, which will be given for you; do this in memory of me…This cup is the new covenant in my blood, which will be shed for you.” Luke 22: 19-20

Does anyone else have the Bible School song “Oh, how I love Jesus” running through their head every time they get to this meme?
And I want to give a big “thank you” to Debbie who graciously gave me permission to use her lovely image (with yet another one of my favorite Gospel quotes) to illustrate this post.
I tag:
Amy
Margaret in Minnesota
Laura H
Aimee
Christine


Tuesday, July 10, 2007

Halfway to Whole Again

Boy, it's been quiet around here.

Not only are Big Brother and TheDad in beautiful, scenic Roanoke, Virginia enjoying all the fun Boy Scout Camp (by day) and Dungeons & Dragons (by night) have to offer...

But Middle Sister has spent the past day and a half with her friend's family, at the beach.

She just called to tell me they're getting ready to leave and that she is coming home with a "complimentary sunburn."

Since 1:00 yesterday it's been me and Little Brother. He's had his chance to be an Only Child for a day. And while he misses everyone, I do think he has enjoyed his chance to monopolize my attention. We invested in a new board game (Scrabble Junior--I can't believe we never had this game with either of the Big Kids!) and we've enjoyed playing together. We've gone to his swim lessons and to the pool in the afternoon. I've gotten a few "house projects" done, as I always do when TheDad is gone. (It's like a sickness. I have to move furniture every time he goes away on a trip. He's very amused by this and has come to expect it by now).

Tonight I asked him to pick up the Army Guys that were littering the family room floor. He told me he had them all "set up" and didn't want to take them down. So I offered to put away the "too-old-for-lead-paint-recalls" Thomas trains and let him set up on the train table, so he could have his ongoing battle. He was very worried that I would be upset about taking down a train track I had designed and built before Michelle visited, but I told him I could make a new track whenever he wanted.

"You're my buddy, Mom!" came with a big hug at that point.

Tomorrow morning the week is half over. When Little Brother wakes up he will find that his sister is home, sunburn and all. And we'll erase the "4" on the white board and write a big number "3"--for the days we have to wait until our family is all together again, at home. It can't come soon enough for me.

Saturday, July 07, 2007

Time for Camp


The caravan departed today for Boy Scout Camp. This is TheDad and Big Brother's fifth year of summer camp together.

Good thing St. George is a powerful patron. I had to sign various scary forms absolving the camp from any responsibility if my son is injured (or worse) in the rapids where he'll be canoeing and rafting, or in a cave, or on a mountain, or wherever else the "High Adventure" group will go. I'm sure Big Brother will have a great time. I, on the other hand, will be a nervous wreck.

TheDad says that this is why they don't let moms come to camp. Dads don't mind as much when the boys get muddy on the first day and stay muddy all week. They don't mind the boys' aversion to the camp showers (though they do insist that the boys make some attempt at getting clean before leaving camp). They don't get too nervous when they see the kinds of dangerous stuff the boys will be doing (woodcarving, anyone? Building bonfires? Class 4 rapids?)

It's going to be a hot week in Roanoke, VA. TheDad really feels the heat, and those tents aren't air-conditioned. There's no internet access either. He's also giving up a week's vacation from work, home-cooked meals, time with the rest of the family, and a comfortable place to sleep. And leaders don't camp free--he PAYS to go on this trip. That's what makes him a great dad.

So this week I will be "two men down." I will be worrying about them while they're in the heat and on the river. I'll miss having them around, to talk to and to feed, since it's much less fun to cook for 3 than for 5 (they're my most appreciative eaters!) And on a totally shallow note, I'll be missing my XM radio since I offered to let them have my van. It's a long drive and this way the boys can watch movies.

Please keep them and all the Boy Scouts in your prayers. It's a wonderful organization and it's been great for Big Brother. Even the Pope supports it:

"For one century, through play, action, adventure, contact with nature, life as a team and in service to others, you offer an integral formation to anyone who joins the Scouts. Inspired by the Gospels, scouting is not only a place for authentic human growth, but also a place of strong Christian values and true moral and spiritual growth, as with any authentic way of holiness.

The sense of responsibility that permeates Scout education leads to a life of charity and the desire to serve one's neighbor, in the image of Christ the servant, based on the grace offered by Christ, in a special way through the sacraments of the Eucharist and forgiveness."

The Pontiff encouraged the brotherhood of the Scouts, "which is a part of its original ideal and makes up, above all for young generations -- a witness of that which is the body of Christ, within which, according to the image of St. Paul, all are called to fulfill a mission wherever they are, to rejoice in another's progress and to support their brothers in times of difficulty."

"I thank the Lord for all the fruits that, throughout these last 100 years, the Scouts have offered," he said. He encouraged Catholic Scouts to go forward on their path, offering "to boys and girls of today an education that forms them with a strong personality, based on Christ and willing to live for the high ideals of faith and human solidarity."

Benedict XVI's message ends with advice from Baden-Powell: "Be faithful to your Scout promise, even when you are no longer young, and may God help you to do so!"When man seeks to be faithful to his promises, the Lord himself strengthens his steps."


St. George, patron of Boy Scouts; St. Joseph, patron of fathers; St. John Bosco, patron of boys, pray for them.

H/T to Micki for the image of St. George, patron of Boy Scouts, and to Father Jay Toborowsky for the text of the Pope's message.


Friday, July 06, 2007

A Letter to My Daughter on the Feast of St. Maria Goretti



Dear Middle Sister,

Today, July 6, is the feast of St. Maria Goretti. She is the patron saint of young women, and she died when she was only a little older than you. But she did not die of an illness or in an accident. She was murdered, because she would not give in to a man who tried to rape her. He tried to take away her purity, and once that is gone, it cannot be gotten back. When she fought him, he stabbed her. But in the hospital, while she was dying, she forgave him.

You are growing up in a world where it is very easy for a girl's innocence and purity to be taken away from her. Little by little our world robs girls like you of the chance to stay innocent. TV commercials and programs, movies, music and music videos, and fashion all seek to make grown-up behavior by young girls appear "normal" and to make little girls appear "sexy."

This is why we don't let you buy and wear certain types of clothes. This is why we tell you to be careful when you use the computer. This is why we don't like some of the music your friends like to listen to with you. This is why we won't let you watch some movies. This is why we're not the "cool" parents you sometimes wish you had! It's our job to keep you safe from all the people and all the forces that prey on beautiful young girls like you. I don't want to scare you, but I worry about what could happen to you.

Love,
Mom

Prayer to St. Maria Goretti:
Oh Saint Maria Goretti who, strengthened by God's grace, did not hesitate even at the age of twelve to shed your blood and sacrifice life itself to defend your virginal purity, look graciously on the unhappy human race which has strayed far from the path of eternal salvation. Teach us all, and especially youth,with what courage and promptitude we should flee for the love of Jesus anything that could offend Him or stain our souls with sin. Obtain for us from our Lord victory in temptation, comfort in the sorrows of life, and the grace which we earnestly beg of thee, and may we one day enjoy with thee the imperishable glory of Heaven. Amen.


Thursday, July 05, 2007

Back Away from the Camp Trunk....

Big Brother is packing his stuff for camp. I just stopped in there to hand him some towels when I saw him standing by the closet door, rolling his clean T-shirts into balls and tossing them into the trunk.

I can't look.

He's big enough to read the equipment list and find what he needs in the house. I'm just going to assume that he will bring everything he needs.

He also thinks it's very funny that I can't watch him pack, so he's providing the play-by-play: "Hey Mom, one of my T-shirts wouldn't fit in the pile with the rest of the T-shirts, so I put my foot in the trunk and stepped on the pile so it would fit."

His friend is in the background yelling, "Big Brother! Stop walking in your luggage!"

I can't look.

Is It Me, or Is It Monday?

I've been convinced all day long that today is Monday, that this is a new week, that I should be doing all my "Monday routine" chores. I'm having a little trouble convincing myself that it's actually THURSDAY and that trunks are due at Boy Scouts in under 4 hours. You know, those trunks that Big Brother and TheDad have "not yet begun to pack."
I took care of the batteries and the bug spray, though.

ASAP

I've always been a "type A" person, always in a hurry. But the poem below has stuck with me for several years now.

I first heard it in a homily by one of the deacons at our parish. Yes, even cheesy poetry can be a good starter for a homily, because there's a lot of truth in here.


There's work to do, deadlines to meet;
You've got no time to spare,
But as you hurry and scurry-
ASAP - ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER.

It may seem like your worries
Are more than you can bear.
Slow down and take a breather-
ASAP - ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER.


Wednesday, July 04, 2007

So Much Fun...So Little Time

And now, so little energy!

We packed a lot into our Independence Day celebration. Good thing we didn't have any plans to see fireworks, because we've got the kind nature provides in the form of thunder and lightning. But most of that held off until we were back home.

Our day started early this morning with Big Brother running in a local 5K race (he didn't place, but did bring in a personal record time of under 23 minutes!) After the race we watched a parade that has been a tradition for 110 years. It was more than an hour long and included 8 different bands, fire trucks from 5 towns, many antique cars, and more.

How about these costumes? My favorite part of parades around here ALWAYS has to be the Mummers.



















Following the parade we enjoyed good company and great homemade Chinese food at our friends' home. Later we picked up Big Brother's friend and headed off to see some other friends for a picnic, swim and pick-up soccer game among the kids.

We made it an early night since we had all pretty much hit "Zombie State" by the time dinner was over. I finished that diabolical jigsaw puzzle (HA! Now I can put it away!)

Tomorrow, a big day of laundry awaits as I have to get clothes ready for Boy Scout Camp (trunks are due tomorrow night! Yikes!)

Happy 4th!

It's Still A Grand Old Flag


Yesterday I looked out the front window and saw that next to each driveway in my neighborhood, a small plastic flag had been planted in the ground.

I thought that was pretty cool. Then, after I sent Big Brother out to mow the lawn, he came back in with the flag (he's a good Boy Scout, and didn't want to run it over with the mower or leave it in the driveway).

Attached to the stick holding the flag was a business card for a local company. But the kicker was the logo on the edge of the flag:

MADE IN CHINA.

I still made him put it back after he finished the lawn. Little Brother can have it to play "parade" tomorrow (I know he's going to want to!)

But today is the Fourth of July. We display a real flag on our front door, and we will spend time today with friends who are immigrants to (and now, citizens of) our country. They're happy and grateful to be here. And they remind me that what we have here in the USA is a very precious thing indeed, not without cost, and not to be taken for granted.


H/T to Dan at faithmouse for this toon that expresses just how I feel about this holiday.

Tuesday, July 03, 2007

The Boys are at it Again!

Little Brother just burst through the front door, followed closely by Adventure Boy.

"I'm the first one in the house!" he yelled.

"Me too!" yelled Adventure Boy.

I'm convinced that part of the reason God put little boys into our lives is to provide comic relief.

The Boys of Summer

Out in the backyard, Little Brother and Adventure Boy are standing about fifteen feet apart. Each of them wields a wiffle-ball bat, but they're holding the bats like golf clubs and hitting a large beach ball at each other.

"What are you playing?" I asked them.

"TENNIS!"

Monday, July 02, 2007

How to Make Your Friend's Mom Cry

It's 8:30 PM, and the streetlights will be turning on any minute now. That was always the signal to come home for a bath, a snack, and bedtime, when I was a child.

It's 8:30 PM, and my doorbell just rang. It was Adventure Boy, looking for Little Brother (he's running an errand with TheDad.)

After I told Adventure Boy that Little Brother isn't home now, and that it's getting late, and asked him what time he's supposed to be home, AND admired his blue light sabre for the 875th time, he asked me, "How come you watch Little Brother?"

"I'm his mom," I replied, and wondered if that might be the Wrong Answer since he lives with his grandparents.

He thought about it, and very solemnly told me, "I...I...I take care of my own me!"

A boy of 5 1/2 should not be taking care of his "own me."

His grandmother told me today that he wanted to come here at 7 AM.

Summer is when our schedules open up a little. We're not getting ready for a 7:25 AM school bus. We're not driving to the high school to get Big Brother after track practice. We do have storytime at the library, grocery shopping, and summer art class and basketball games.

We do have a little boy who wants to come here at 7 AM and would stay as long as we let him. My neighbor and I let him in when we can, when we don't have plans that involve leaving the house, and he's generally well-behaved (though he did pretend to cut off my arms and legs with his light sabre tonight!)

It's hard to know where to draw the line with a little boy who is clearly not getting the kind of attention and supervision a 5-year-old needs. But in the summer, our schedules open up a little, and our hearts need to open up a lot.

St. John Bosco, pray for all the Adventure Boys in the world.

Sunday, July 01, 2007

I Exercised Today...

...so I could be as thin as I look here:



I'll never be this tall though!

Margaret tagged me for this one. I'm leaving this as an open tag! Anyone want to play?

The Right Word for the Job

Why is it that laces on men's dress shoes are so short that there's barely enough shoelace to tie a bow?

I was watching TheDad struggle to get his dress shoes tied just now, and saw how short those laces are.

"Do you need me to pick up some new laces at the store?"

"No. These are fine. They're just...DAINTY!"

Friday, June 29, 2007

Notice to My Children

If I ask you to pick something up or clean something up, and you say any of the following:
"I didn't use it/play with it/take it out/eat it/drink it/spill it/make that mess" or any variant thereof,
steam will start to come out of my ears and I will insist that you not only do the job I just asked you (nicely) to do, but that you do a second chore as well.
I clean up plenty of messes I didn't make, every day.
A word to the wise: just say, "OK, Mom" and do what I ask.

Learning from the Kids


Sometimes our kids set a better example than we do. And it's up to us to learn from that, and to appreciate the gift of their good example as much as we would appreciate the good example of some adult we know and respect.

Last weekend Middle Sister went to a birthday party for her friend. Since it was a swim party, she wore her fake "Crocs." Yes, she has fake ones. So do I and Little Brother. I'm not about to pay upwards of $35 for plastic shoes when I can get knockoffs for $15 or less.

Anyway, on the way home from the party she mentioned that one of the girls there told her, "You're not wearing real Crocs."

Middle Sister's answer was: "So what? I like these."

After she told me about it, and we had a short conversation about that kind of thing being rude, she was done with it. She let it go. She likes her shoes and she's happy with them.

I've been hanging onto this little episode for almost a week, letting the irritation fester inside me.

I think this is one of those times when I need to try to be more like my kid.