Sunday, January 18, 2009

Respect Life Sunday

In my house, every day is Respect Life Day.

But anyway.

In this country, after Tuesday, no day is Respect Life Day. Our President-elect has promised to sign into law the most anti-life legislation this country has ever known.

Barbara at Praying for Grace has shared a beautiful prayer asking St. Francis' intercession for the cause of life. Please join me in praying this prayer, today and every day until it becomes unnecessary--until abortion in our nation is once again considered an unthinkable and unattainable thing; until it is considered a crime; until it is called what it really is--murder.

Respect for Life Prayer
Gentle St. Francis
you were so devoted to the humanity of Christ.
Your heart burst with appreciation toward God
for taking on human life.
You saw beauty and goodness in all living things -
in birds that sing,
the fish that fill our waters,
and all that lives in nature.

Help us to imitate your reverence for life
wherever it may be.
Especially, humble Francis of Assisi,
help us to help others
to see the worth of each living,
unborn baby sheltered in its mother's womb.

May all mankind have the grace
to understand that these tiny,
budding lives have the right to life,
liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.
Amen


Thursday, January 15, 2009

Dragon Breath

Little Brother wanted toast (with butter, cut in half "diner style") for breakfast this morning. So that is what I gave him.

After he ate, he came over to give me a hug--and almost knocked me over with his breath. I couldn't imagine what was up with that.

Then I followed him into the kitchen, where I watched him put his hand back into the "Cheese and Garlic" crouton bag.

"You're going to have to brush your teeth after having croutons for breakfast," I advised him.

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Think Fast(er)

The Tiger Cub Scouts (Little Brother and Adventure Boy) are working on their Chess belt-loop tonight. Adventure Boy thinks he's going to win the game, and he wants to hurry things along.

TheDad reminds him, "In chess, it's OK to take some time to think."

"THINK!" he shouts at Little Brother.

This, That, and a Bird Party

I'm calling the doctor for Middle Sister today. She jammed her finger at basketball practice last night and today her whole hand is swollen. She IS at school; I figured she didn't have to miss the whole day if the doctor appointment turned out to be a later one.

It doesn't always pay to veer off the menu plan. Last night I made some chicken creole, which was just not that great. It sure was spicy, though. Cleared out my sinuses.

Little Brother wanted popcorn last night but didn't finish the bowl. This morning I tossed the rest out, under the bird feeder which I also refilled. The birds were at the popcorn almost before I got back in the door.

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Thinking Of My Chili Buddy

I'm making a batch of "game day" chili for dinner today. And I'm missing a young friend of our family. She hasn't been around lately to help me make the chili--a task she always enjoyed and volunteered to do.

She's been held in my Pocket Rosary for months now--the "young family friend who could use as many prayers as possible." I'm not in touch with her and have not been since I saw her last in October, so I have no reason to believe that she doesn't still need those prayers.

So as I chopped the celery and onions, rinsed the beans, browned the meat, and added the spices, I prayed for my chili buddy. I'll do so again every time I stir the chili.

May she find her way. And may God keep her safe.

Friday, January 09, 2009

Customer Service At Its Finest

I am sitting here "on hold" with my husband's doctor. He asked me to call and reschedule an appointment he has for early next week.

So I am listening "to the entire menu as our options have changed..." (the menus always say that. But the options always sound the same to me! And by the time I get to the last option I forget which number I should have pressed.)

If I want to reschedule an existing appointment, I am to press 2. (did that)

"You have reached the rescheduling department of (name of doctor). If you wish to reschedule immediately, please press 0. Otherwise, after the beep, leave the patient's name, telephone number, date of birth and date of appointment, and call back in a few hours to reschedule your appointment."

You have got to be kidding me! I have to leave you all that data in your message and you can't be bothered calling me back?

I pressed 0 and got a very miffed-sounding secretary who grudgingly rescheduled the appointment.

This had better be one fantastic doctor, because the office procedures and staff leave much to be desired.

Friday's Finest

Gems from the Desk Drawer!

I have a habit of scribbling down (on whatever paper is handy) a line from the homily at Mass that particularly strikes me, so I can reflect upon it later.

Sometimes I wind up reflecting upon it much later, when that scrap of paper surfaces after who knows how long.

I found a few of those papers scattered among my desk drawers when I was cleaning the desk yesterday. So here they are, for your consideration:

Prophets remind us of the promises we have made.

Your worst days are never so bad that you are beyond the reach of God's grace. Your best days are never so good that you are beyond the need of God's grace.

There is nothing Franciscan about depression, because depression involves a focus on the self.

Christians must not be sharp-tongued, cutting people to pieces, because that is of the Devil. He wants us to hurt each other.

And this last one came from reading the Summa Mamas blog a very long time ago (before I learned about using Bloglines and the handy "keep new" feature!) It's Pope Benedict XVI:

The ways of the Lord are not comfortable, but we were not created for comfort, but for greatness, for good.

Tuesday, January 06, 2009

In Which I Prove Just How Pathetic I Am

I got this fabulous recipe for a beef dish, and my whole family loves it. So I froze the leftover Christmas roast beef and saved it for tonight.

The only problem was the 1/2 cup red wine.

We don't drink alcohol; we keep Jack Daniels in the house to make the Christmas cookies, and until recently I had been using that swill supermarket cooking wine for recipes.

Then at Wegmans I found Inglenook Alcohol-Removed Wine. It's about $6 a bottle but I figure it has to be better than the Holland House stuff. So I keep a bottle of Cabernet and one of Chardonnay around to use in recipes. If only they made sherry and marsala, I'd be all set.

But unlike the Holland House "wine," this stuff comes with a big stumbling block: a cork.

The only corkscrew I have is on my Swiss Army Knife. It's fairly useless as a corkscrew. It took me ten minutes to remove the cork from this bottle of Cabernet, and I wound up with three pieces (not including the little divot that got stuck in the Swiss Army Knife and wouldn't let the corkscrew close until I pulled out the little white toothpick and pried it out.

Help! I'm corkscrew-impaired!

I do, however, have this nifty little thing that plugs up the top of the wine bottle and allows me to pour or close the bottle. But I think I might need to invest in a Real Corkscrew.

Monday, January 05, 2009

Fly, Eagles, Fly

Little Brother started the morning off right by engaging in a little Monday-morning post-victory trash talk.
"Next week the Eagles are gonna beat the Giants! They beat them already....the Eagles can beat everybody...the Titans, the Bangles..."

Sunday, January 04, 2009

Books Read in 2009

As I did in 2008, I will be listing title, author, a short review, and the date. I read 97 books last year--hope to top that in '09!

1. Nickel and Dimed: on (not) Getting By In America by Barbara Ehrenreich. Interesting premise: a middle-class author leaves her usual life and visits several cities, working in a few different minimum-wage jobs and trying to see if she can live on what she earns. It was a good book until the final chapter when Ehrenreich comes to some typically liberal conclusions about wages and what the government should do to support the working poor. B. 01/04/09

2. The Mermaid Chair by Sue Monk Kidd. I enjoyed The Secret Life of Bees so much that I couldn't wait to start Kidd's second book. However, this one was not nearly as good as the first. She tells a good tale, but I didn't find the characters as engaging in this novel. I didn't like the main character or the choices she made--especially as she made them knowing full well how many people would get hurt. B. 01/05/09

3. My Sister Dilly by Maureen Lang. This is the third book I've read by Maureen Lang, and all of them have dealt with special-needs children. This book falls into the category of "Christian romance" but it is kept very tame on the romance level and not so sweet on the Christian level that you need an insulin shot after reading it. It's a novel about a young woman who returns to her hometown after 15 years to help her sister, who is just getting out of prison for attempting to kill her special-needs child (and herself). A great story. B+. 01/07/09

4. Finding Alice by Melody Carlson. This novel is the story of a college student with schizophrenia. The author did an amazing job of presenting the way a person with this disorder thinks, acts, and looks at the world. Amazingly, this was not a depressing book. Excellent! A+. 01/09/09

5. Testimony by Anita Shreve. This was an absolutely disturbing book--because it could happen. It's the story of how a videotaped orgy/sexual assault at a privileged boarding school affects--and ruins--many lives. The one thing I disliked about this novel is the constant change of narrator. Every chapter, a new narrator. Sometimes the book was told in first person, other times second person, and often third person but from the point of view of a particular character. A-. 01/12/09

6. Twenty Wishes by Debbie Macomber. This book is the sweet story of a woman whose life is not turning out quite the way she wants it to. Pushed into volunteering at a local school by a friend of hers, she winds up more involved in a little girl's life than she expects to be. When you need something light with a happy ending, pick this! B+. 01/14/2009

7. Escape by Carolyn Jessop. If you ever think you're having a bad day, read this book. A young mother with 8 children works to find a way to escape an oppressive polygamous Mormon sect. Nonfiction. B. 01/18/09

8. Multiple Bles8ings by Kate Gosselin. This is the "back story" for the Jon & Kate Plus Ei8ht show. Published by Zondervan, the book has a distinctly Christian focus, but sometimes that felt a little forced. It also has an excellent prolife focus, and gives a glimpse of the frustrations and difficulties--and physical trauma--that Kate went through during her pregnancy and the sextuplets' infant year. I say that the Christian focus felt forced--you hardly ever see any reference to faith on the TV show. Maybe this is her way of being able to say what TLC will not show on the air. Nonfiction. B. 01/22/09

9. Just Breathe by Susan Wiggs. This was apparently a popular book, because I had a long wait for it at the library! It was a very good story about a woman who discovers her husband's betrayal right after she has undergone a fertility procedure. She moves back to her hometown, makes new friends, and then finds out she is indeed expecting her husband's children. The characters were interesting and the story was enjoyable. B. 01/27/09

10. A Dangerous Age by Ellen Gilchrist. This is a novel about three cousins whose relationships are affected--and in some cases shattered--because of the 9/11 attacks and subsequent war. I found it to be a thinly-veiled anti-war screed, and it wasn't even that enjoyable a book. The narrative was hard to follow. If the book had been any longer, I probably wouldn't have bothered finishing it. C-. 02/01/09

11. On This Day by Melody Carlson. While this novel was not as good as some of her others I read last year, it was still a very good story. It followed several women through the course of a weekend that all of them are spending together at a wedding. Each of them winds up with decisions to make regarding her own future. It's not all sunshine and roses for everyone at the end, but it is ultimately a hopeful book. B+. 02/05/09

12. John 3:16 by Nancy Moser. This book is "in your face" Christian and not ashamed of it. It's an interesting novel about a number of people whose lives are drastically changed. The big change doesn't take place until very late in the book--there is a whole lot of "lead-up" before that moment. It was a very moving story, but not a "downer." B+. 02/07/09

13. Broken for You by Stephanie Kallos. From the title of this book, you'd think it was a downer. But instead, this novel shows that from brokenness can come healing in unimaginable ways. Some things--but not everything--wrap up just a little too neatly at the end, but it really was a page-turner, with characters you can't help but find yourself pulling for. The story begins with an older, reclusive woman learning she has a brain tumor--and deciding to make big changes in her life. These changes involve several other people she meets in the coming months, and the story leaves you smiling. A. 02/08/09

14. Rosewater and Soda Bread by Marsha Mehran. This fascinating novel tells the story of a young woman who is found on the beach in Ireland--injured, and with hands webbed so that the locals think she is a mermaid. A group of sisters from the community as well as another local woman take care of her. When word gets out about what really happened, most of the town turns against them. B. 02/11/09

15. Inside Out Girl by Tish Cohen. A little girl, age 10, has what's called a Nonverbal Learning Disability which is similar to Asperger's. She is not good at reading nonverbal cues (facial expressions, tone of voice) and she is bullied at school. Her widowed dad meets a single mom of 2 slightly older kids and they hit it off. The older kids are mortified that they have to associate with this child who does not fit in. At the same time, the older daughter is going through some "love life" issues. And their mom is reminded of a handicapped child she gave up for adoption 16 years before. B+. Could have done without the harsh language! 02/14/09

16. Much Ado About Jessie Kaplan by Paula Marantz Cohen. I admit that what drew me to this book is its setting: Cherry Hill, NJ. I really enjoy reading books set in locations I'm familiar with. But the story was pretty interesting. A Jewish grandmother is oblivious to her family's frantic preparations for her granddaughter's bat mitvah, because she is convinced that 400 years ago she had an affair with William Shakespeare. It really was an enjoyable read, and the grandmother's character was wonderful. B+. 02/17/09

17. Once Upon a Day by Lisa Tucker. This novel wove two heartbreaking family stories: a doctor whose family was killed in a car accident, and two young adults whose mother was brutally murdered during their early childhood. When the doctor and the young woman meet, they each begin the process of healing their hurts. B. 02/20/2009

18. Stormy Weather by Paulette Jiles. I usually like historical fiction set in the Depression period but this one was rather too depressing. It did give a good sense of the desperation people felt, but I had a hard time feeling sympathy for the main character. C. 02/28/09

19. The Smart One and the Pretty One by Claire LaZebnik. This was a cute novel. Predictable, yes. But it was an easy read and an enjoyable story. The "smart one" is a frumpy lawyer and the "pretty one" is a stylish spendthrift. Brought together by their mother's illness, the "pretty one" tries to get back at her sister by dredging up an old marriage arrangement (made in jest by a pair of drunken parents of young children). B. 03/02/09

20. A Mile in My Flip-Flops by Melody Carlson. I really enjoyed this book. Nothing embarrassing in there--I'd let my daughter read it, or give it to my mom, no problem there. It's the story of a single teacher who decides to spend her summer vacation "flipping" a house. Predictably, she meets a contractor and...(well, I said it was predictable.) It's a Christian novel that is not over-the-top, in-your-face, pushy Christian--it's natural to the characters. And the characters were very likable and real. A great light read. 03/04/09

21. Queen of the Road by Doreen Orion. This very funny memoir tells of a year in the life of a woman my age and her husband, who take a year off work to travel the country in a tour bus. The book's subtitle tells it all: "The true tale of 47 states, 22,000 miles, 200 shoes, 2 cats, 1 poodle, a husband and a bus with a will of its own." Definitely enjoyable! 03/10/09

22. Little Face by Sophie Hannah. I'm not usually a suspense-novel reader but this one was really good. The story centers on a new mom who comes home shortly after the baby's birth and insists that the baby in the crib is not her child--that the baby must have been switched. Meanwhile her husband and mother-in-law are trying to "gaslight" her (actually they have been for some time) and she has trouble convincing the police that she is in danger. Then she and the baby disappear. Good stuff. Not for the kids. B+. 03/16/09

23. Lost Highways by Curtiss Ann Matlock. This was a sweet love story about a young woman who inherits her mom's rodeo horse and picks up a stranded traveler on the highway. Both of them are emotionally wounded but manage to find a way to healing. B. 03/17/09

24. There's No Place Like Here by Cecilia Ahern. Some people like to read about time travel. In this novel, the main character travels into another dimension, but it's not about time--it's about lost things. She somehow finds her way into another world that is populated by the people and things that mysteriously go missing. It's not the best-written story, but the story is interesting and I was kept in suspense about how it would all turn out. B.

25. These Boots Weren't Made for Walking by Melody Carlson. I enjoy Carlson's Christian chick lit. This story is about a young woman who's overextended financially and fired at work. She moves home to live with her mom, but discovers that Mom has begun dating younger men and dressing younger, too. Cassidy is a likable character and it was easy to find myself in her corner. B.

26. The Returning by Ann Tatlock. This author writes fabulous and heartbreaking stories and this is no exception. It tells of a family's first summer together after five years of separation--the father has just been released from prison. During the summer, everyone in the family must adjust to their new situation. A+.

27. Handle with Care by Jodi Picoult. As usual, Picoult deals with very difficult subjects. This book addresses the question of a wrongful-birth lawsuit and how it tears a family apart. The author keeps the reader in suspense until the very end--and the end is a complete surprise. (However, I didn't find the ending very satisfying...I closed the book and thought, "WHY????") B+.

28. I Heart Bloomberg: 86 Bloomberg Place by Melody Carlson. See below. B.

29. Let Them Eat Fruitcake by Melody Carlson. This novel and the one before it are part of a series about four young women who share a home. Each has her own quirks, hangups and problems. They begin as housemates but end up as friends. I'm looking forward to the third book, Spring Broke. B.

30. The Christmas Sweater by Glenn Beck. A sad but sweet story. It's labeled fiction but the book jacket says it's "based on a true story." A young boy deals with loss and wishes at Christmas time. A-.

31. Half-Assed by Jennette Fulda. This memoir chronicles a young woman's weight loss--without miracle pills or bariatric surgery. She lost more than half of her body weight. It was an interesting book. B-.

32. The Year the Music Changed by Diane Thomas. Here's a rare chance for me to use the term I learned in grad school: this Epistolary Novel (a novel written entirely in letter form) was really excellent. It tells the story of a young girl who writes to Elvis Presley very early in his career, and takes them through the next year or so as he gets his "big breaks" and makes some mistakes too. Highly recommended. A+.

33. The Mighty Queens of Freeville by Amy Dickinson. This memoir was a sweet tribute to a place, but not the best story. I had a hard time engaging with the characters. B-.

34. Comfort Food by Kate Jacobs. This was a fun book. It's the story of a TV chef who is living at the mercy of changing ratings and stations wanting to glam up the food. Interesting mix of characters who are put together because of their situation, not because they want to be together. It was a "mind candy" kind of book but I thought the characters were well-drawn. B.

35. Crystal Lies by Melody Carlson. Her books are always so excellent. The reader is drawn into the codependent existence of a young man's mother. She doesn't want to believe he's using drugs, and wants to believe that she can cure him. She's ready to give up everything else--and finds out that some things, she never really had in the first place. The story was heartbreaking and well-told. A+.

36. The Future Homemakers of America by Laurie Graham. This book was just OK. Some of the characters were sweet but after a while it got less believable. I think that stretching the book over a 20+ year time period didn't help. Sometimes it's better to stop sooner. B.

37. The Lost Ravioli Recipes of Hoboken by Laura Schenone. Her "dedicated mother who keeps her last name and takes off to Italy alone for weeks at a time on a fruitless quest to find a family recipe" wore thin pretty fast. The author of this memoir pretty much let everything else go so she could find her grandmother's ravioli recipe--one of those old family recipes that doesn't involve measuring and that is tweaked by each successive cook, so that you never will get to exactly that recipe your grandmother made. I'm guessing she had the book deal in the works pretty early on in the process, because this sure did take a toll on her marriage and family. C+. May '09

38. Very Valentine by Adriana Trigiani. It was tricky reading two books about Italians in quick succession; the words in Italian would stick in my head afterwards! But this fiction book was a good foil to the book above. A young woman wants to carry on the family business. She's the only one in her generation interested in the business, and is working hard to keep it afloat. She gains insight into herself and her amazing grandmother in the process. This is one of Trigiani's best books. A. May '09

39. Time of My Life by Allison Winn Scotch. I read about this one in a magazine and decided to take a chance. I'm glad I did. The premise of this novel is that a suburban mom of a toddler is growing dissatisfied with her life and marriage. She is granted a "do-over" by being shipped 7 years into her past--before she even knew her current husband! She vows to make the most of this opportunity and learns that each action and word have their own ripple effects far beyond her own life. It was a fascinating story. A-. May '09.

40. The Middle Place by Kelly Corrigan. This memoir tells the story of a young wife and mother who is very close to her father, even though she lives across the country from him. It details her diagnosis with breast cancer and his subsequent diagnosis with bladder cancer. I honestly thought this book was going to end differently--I was "set up" to think that a whole different scenario would play out. Corrigan is a good writer but not an extremely likable character. Then again, this book was not fiction. B+. May '09.

41. 8 Sandpiper Way by Debbie Macomber. It wasn't too far into this book when I realized that I was reading a part of a series--and I hadn't started at the beginning! That drives me crazy, but Macomber does (very helpfully) provide good "catch up" information. This is the eighth book in a series set in the Pacific Northwest. It's a light read, but you can't help being caught up in the characters, some of whom even show up in other series (the Dakota books). In this installment, a pastor's wife fears that her husband is having an affair. B. May 22.

42. 50 Harbor Street by Debbie Macomber. This is also part of the Cedar Creek series. This story centers on a mystery involving the town's private investigator--he's getting strange messages and gifts. And there are a few romances going on among other people in town. This book (5th in the series) was not as good as the later one I just finished, and was a little more explicit in content. Not needed. B-. May 23.

43. Welcome to the Departure Lounge by Meg Federico. This was an absolutely funny, yet heartbreaking story. One of those "laugh-so-you-don't-cry" memoirs, it tells the tale of the adult daughter of a woman who can no longer care for herself or her husband. The challenges of the Sandwich Generation are explored, and the author finds a way to laugh through her pain, to find the funny in the daily mess and frustration in dealing with her physically ailing mother and her stepfather who has Alzheimer's, and their various caregivers. Highly recommended. A. May 24.

44. Not Becoming My Mother by Ruth Reichl. This memoir was a big disappointment to me; I've read and thoroughly enjoyed Reichl's other books. This one was written after her mother's death, when Reichl's conscience pricked at her for telling "tales out of school" about her mom's inability to cook and keep a house. She thinks she'll make up for it in this book, but I don't think she achieves her purpose. It's a little over 100 pages--small pages--and I read it in an hour. That's an hour I'll never get back. C-. May 25.

45. Don't You Forget About Me by Jancee Dunn. A novel about a woman returning to her hometown after a broken marriage, and attending her 20th high school reunion. She learns that some things never change--especially in the way she relates to her former classmates (including a former boyfriend.) I found myself really annoyed at some of the main character's choices, hoping that she would behave differently toward her friends who had managed to grow up and move on. Part of the attraction of this book was that it took place in North Jersey, but it drove me a little nuts that the author (a native of the area) had some geographical details inaccurate. (Her fictional hometown was next door to two other real towns that are actually 20 miles apart, for instance.) Just "OK." C+. May 29.

46. Mama's Bank Account by Kathryn Forbes. This is a reread--I read this one as a kid, and then on Mother's Day we saw the movie on TV, so I had to get the book at the library and read it again. What a sweet story! Recommended for anyone over 10. B+. May 31.

47. 16 Lighthouse Road by Debbie Macomber. First in the Cedar Creek series. June 1.

48. 204 Rosewood Lane by Debbie Macomber. Second in the Cedar Creek series. June 2.

49. 311 Pelican Court by Debbie Macomber. Third in the Cedar Creek series. June 3.

50. 44 Cranberry Point by Debbie Macomber. Fourth in the Cedar Creek series. June 4.

51. 6 Rainier Drive by Debbie Macomber. Sixth in the Cedar Creek series. June 5.

52. 74 Seaside Avenue by Debbie Macomber. Seventh in the Cedar Creek series. June 6.

53. Knit Two by Kate Jacobs. Sequel to The Friday Night Knitting Club, this novel revisits the characters five years later. It's an excellent story, but I recommend that you reread the first book before plunging into this one, otherwise it's difficult to remember all the details you're expected to know. B. June 7.

54. My Life in Pink and Green by Lisa Greenwald. This is a teen novel, so I can't figure out how it found its way into my to-read pile, but it was a good story and I'm happy to recommend it to Middle Sister. A seventh-grade girl searches for a way to save her family's independent pharmacy. This is a breath of fresh air in the teen-novel section--no "occult," no "cliques," no sex and no horror. A very enjoyable read. B+. June 8.

55. Confessions of a Slacker Mom by Muffy Mead-Ferro. By the time I got to the end of this book, I felt a little misled, because it really did seem for most of the book that Mead-Ferro is a stay-at-home mom, with the kids day in and day out. Then you read about her staff of nannies to care for the children while she works. Other than that, I did enjoy this book. Guess I am a slacker mom too, because I just don't get a lot of the gimmicks and fads that seem to be involved in raising children. It's more about merchandising than it is about growing kids! An enjoyable book that encourages parents to listen to their instincts, not to the magazines, websites, and merchandisers. B. June 9.

56. The Local News by Miriam Gerson. Full of suspense and sadness, this novel chronicles a teenage girl whose brother suddenly disappears. The house is empty without him, because he had that bigger-than-life, obnoxious but charming personality that ran the show. As her family falls apart, the protagonist struggles with her feelings of grief and relief regarding her brother's disappearance. B. June 13.

57. Summer on Blossom Street by Debbie Macomber. The Blossom Street series is, in my opinion, Macomber's best. I really enjoyed this book, which reunites a young girl with her father as well as bringing the reader up-to-date on the other characters from this series. B+. 6/15.

58. Love in the Present Tense by Catherine Ryan Hyde. Many narrators make this book confusing--even more so when you see that the narration jumps around in time. This novel is the story of a young boy who is abandoned by his mother at the age of 5. He's taken in by a single man who lives and works next door, but later adopted by another family. But he never loses touch with his foster father, and never stops trying to find a connection with his missing mother. A. 6/18.

59. A Cedar Cove Christmas by Debbie Macomber.

60. Heart and Soul by Maeve Binchy. I like how Binchy brings characters from previous novels into her current one--I only wish I were reading them one after the other instead of years apart. This novel takes place in a cardiology clinic and follows the various staff through a year in their lives. Very enjoyable; this is one of Binchy's best. B+. 6/29.

61. Nanny State by David Harsanyi. This columnist's book takes on the trend of government treating people like children who need to be protected from themselves: the "food police," cigarette police and seat-belt police. Whatever happened to common sense? Interesting and informative. B+. 6/29

62. The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society by Mary Ann Shaffer and Annie Barrows. Sweet--an epistolary novel! This was a wonderful book. The characters in the letters became so real to me, I was ready to go and visit the place. This book chronicles a young author who learns about a book club that had met on the Island of Guernsey during World War II (which has just ended as this book begins). The young woman travels to the island to learn about the people and becomes captivated by their lives and their story. There was so much want and loss for them as a result of the war. This would be a wonderful summer-reading book for teens. Highly recommended! A+. 6/30

63. Still Alice by Lisa Genova. I could not put this one down. It is an absolutely tragic and compelling novel about a woman struggling with early-onset Alzheimer's disease. Tissue alert--but don't miss it. A+. 6/30

64. One Heart by Jane McCafferty. This was a strange book and I wasn't sure if I'd stick with it till the end. It's about two sisters who live and work together, and how they are both dealing with their grief after the tragic death of one of their daughters. Another young girl comes into their lives and becomes part of the whole thing. B.

65. Saving Alice by David Lewis. This was another one of those "do-over" books--the main character has "settled" for a wife after the "love of his life" was killed in a car accident. They named their daughter for that lost love (a friend of his eventual wife.) The book is all about how they have to live with the "what-ifs" and both know that if that accident had never happened, they wouldn't have been married. They both know they were second best. There is always that struggle with "what if this had been different?" I found the ending unsatisfying. B.

66. The Kindness of Strangers by Katrina Kittle. It is absolutely tragic that something like this could happen--and you know that it can. This book is about the sexual abuse of a child by his parents, and his exploitation through pornography and sex parties. He pushes away his only friend because he fears that the friend will similarly become a victim. Through that friend's family, he finally finds a haven. An excellent, realistic book about something you wish never happens. A+.

67. The Soloist by Steve Lopez. If this book is made of reworked newspaper columns, you'd never know it (I was looking to see if this was the case, as Lopez is a columnist at the L.A. Times and his other books are fiction.) This book chronicles the story of his meeting a homeless musician, how he tries to save the mentally ill musical genius, and what they both learn. A. 7/20/09

68. All We Ever Wanted Was Everything by Janelle Brown. This was one of those train-wreck novels that you can't look away from. It comes with divorce, money woes, and high-school angst all in one place. The author keeps you reading with her engaging characters and easy writing style. B+. 7/21/09

69. Spring Broke by Melody Carlson. Third in a series, this is a fun novel. It's light Christian fiction, not heavy-handed with the "Christian" part but very well-done. You can see how faith plays a role in the characters' lives, without the book being preachy. Characters are enjoyable and you want to see how things will go for them. B+.

70. Julie and Julia by Julie Powell. This book is really not much about cooking, and the language is beyond foul. That really put me off. I had hoped to read more about the recipes, and less about the author's politics or her feeling of superiority about living in New York (versus New Jersey). I had hoped, also, to read more about Julia Child. I was disappointed in this book after all the hype. C-.

71. The Actor and the Housewife by Shannon Hale. Wonderful, funny, touching novel--but I didn't like how it ended! That wasn't how I wanted it to turn out! A married mom of 4 meets her "celebrity crush" and winds up becoming his best friend. B+.

72. When Mike Kissed Emma by Christine Marciniak. An enjoyable read for teens, this novel follows a group of friends as they settle into their roles for the high-school play. Author Christine Marciniak captures the humor and drama of everyday life in high school. The characters and dialogue were very well done. Cleverly, the author uses lyrics from the school musical as chapter headings. This novel is a welcome break from the "clique" and "occult" novels that dominate teen lit. Appropriate for middle-school students and older. B+.

73. While I'm Falling by Laura Moriarty. Anyone who thinks that waiting until your children are in college before calling it quits on your marriage will make it easier on the children should read this book. It's all about a young woman who falls apart at school, as her family life falls apart at home. B+.

74. Sing Them Home by Stephanie Kallos. I wasn't sure I was going to stick with this one; it was really unusual at the beginning. The novel wove a diary, a ghost story, a parent's death, another parent's serious illness, and spectacular weather events into a compelling tale. Kallos writes absolutely poetic prose. B+.

75. Cottage For Sale, Must be Moved by Kate Whouley. A captivating memoir of one year in a woman's life, as she finds a tiny Cape Cod cottage, buys it, and has it moved to her own property so it can be office space for her home business. B.

76. Homer & Langley by E.L. Doctorow. A fascinating look at two brothers who hoarded everything. Fictionalized story of real people. B.

77. That Old Cape Magic by Richard Russo. C+.

78. American Thighs by Jill Conner Browne. Another installment in the "Sweet Potato Queen" series. FUNNY, as always. Not for children's eyes (as always). B+.

79. The Last Summer of Her Other Life by Jean Reynolds Page. A woman in her early 40s returns home to care for her dying mother--and is falsely accused of an unspeakable crime. This novel is a surprising look at human nature and at the ability of people to look beyond a lie and try to offer help. A page-turner! A. 10/21/09

80. If You Could See Me Now by Cecilia Ahern. This is a lovely story about what happens when an adult sees an "imaginary friend." It didn't turn out as I wanted (or as the main character wanted) but at the same time, the ending was not unsatisfactory. B+. 10/23/09

81. The Four Corners of the Sky by Michael Malone. Long but worth it. A novel about a young Navy pilot who winds up trying to help her con-artist father. B.

82. Mennonite in a Little Black Dress by Rhoda Janzen. Funny as could be, but politically offensive to me. I did stick it out to the end, though. The memoir of a young woman who abandons her religious & cultural traditions, for the most part, but finds that you can take the girl out of a Mennonite neighborhood but you can't take the Mennonite out of the girl. B.

83. Starbucked by Taylor Clark. Subtitled: A Double Tall Take of Caffeine, Commerce and Culture. Clark is like a Starbucks "Mythbuster." He goes into the caffeine content, the charge that Starbucks will put mom-and-pop coffee shops out of business, and the corporate policies that shape the "coffee experience." It was interesting! B. 11/6/09

84. The Origins of Infamy by Christian E. Barth. Gruesome, graphic fictionalized memoir of serial killer Ted Bundy, connecting him to a pair of unsolved murders at the NJ Shore (crimes with which he was never charged). A very disturbing look inside the mind of a murderer. B+. 11/11/09

85. The Penny Pinchers Club by Sarah Strohmeyer. This beats the Shopaholic series, but it was still "mind candy." An enjoyable story about a spendaholic mom and how she changes her ways. B. 11/15/09

86. Thanks for the Memories by Cecilia Ahern. Really good! A woman receives a blood transfusion and, it seems, a transfusion of the donor's memories as well. A.

87. 92 Pacific Boulevard by Debbie Macomber. This is part of the Cedar Cove series, and while these are not all that great, I am intrigued enough to read each installment. C.

88. The Four Corners of the Sky by Michael Malone. A little suspense, a little willing suspension of disbelief. This novel is about a young Navy pilot who's consumed with ending her marriage and finding her father, who abandoned her at the age of 5 by leaving her with an aunt. This is a long book with lots of strange twists and turns and interesting characters. B+.

89. The Idiot Girl and the Flaming Tantrum of Death by Laurie Notaro. A funny memoir--irreverent, gross, and not appropriate for children at times, but always laugh-out-loud funny. B+. 12/5

90. The House on Beartown Road by Elizabeth Cohen. Memoir by a single mom of an infant who also cares for her father as he declines due to Alzheimer's. It does a good job of showing the heartbreak of the disease--but the ending is unresolved. You're just left hanging. C+. 12/7

91. Shelter Me by Juliette Fay. A young dad is killed in an accident, but he has left behind a surprise for his widow and children. A contractor is going to build a porch onto their house. This book begins 3 months after the man's death and goes through about the next year. It was a great story. B+.

92. Autobiography of a Fat Bride by Laurie Notaro. Notaro is funny, but this one really missed the mark. It was not as good as some of her other work. C+. 12/15/09.

93. Twenties Girl by Sophie Kinsella. Way better than the Shopaholic series, this is the story of a girl and a ghost. They're trying to help each other out; the ghost can't rest until she has a special necklace back, and the girl is trying to straighten out boyfriend and work troubles in her own life. It's neatly wrapped at the end, but a very sweet story. B+. 12/20/09

94. The Space Between Before and After by Jean Reynolds Page. This family has a bizarre connection of losses with astronaut-related historical events. Three generations of a family go through crises together; a grandmother seems to be losing her grip on reality, a mom tries to keep everyone together, a son quits school, dates a chronically-ill young woman, and discovers she's pregnant. B.

95. So Happy Together by Maryann McFadden. This was a sweet story about a woman who thinks that she finally has her life on the right track. Her wayward daughter hasn't been heard from in months; her parents seem to be settling in to their old age; she's engaged; she has an opportunity to fulfill a lifelong dream and study photography on Cape Cod. Then her daughter returns and has a baby in her living room, and her father's health declines. You couldn't help but get interested in the characters, and I was happy at the way it turned out. B+.


Saturday, January 03, 2009

It's the Economy, Stupid

Tonight we went out to dinner.

Intending to use a gift card TheDad received for Christmas, we headed for Outback Steakhouse (his favorite) only to discover that there was a 50- to 60-minute wait. Little Brother is too impatient for that, so we decided to try The Cheesecake Factory. They said the wait was only 25 to 30 minutes.

Fifty-five minutes later we were seated at our table. The place was full to bursting. It's in the middle of a new shopping center, which was bustling with shoppers in its many upscale stores (shoppes?) When I wasn't trying to amuse Little Brother, I kept myself busy, as I stood next to the constantly-opening door, checking out the Handbag Fashion Show. Coach and Gucci were well-represented tonight at The Cheesecake Factory.

It didn't look like evidence of an economic downturn to me. People were shopping, and eating out--spending. So much for consumer confidence. I thought they looked pretty confident, and there was no lack of consumers.

Friday, January 02, 2009

Sticking With It

Denise at Catholic Matriarch in My Domestic Church shares a bit from Phil Lawler's reflection on living out Catholic culture:

But what if some of us were conspicuously unified in our beliefs and in our behavior? What if there were enough of us striving to live an authentically Catholic life so that our neighbors couldn't help but notice? Inevitably they would notice, too, if there was something a bit different about the way we lived: something distinctive, something attractive, something clearly in keeping with the teachings of the Church. We need to bear witness to the power of Christian principles, to act as the yeast within our society.


The quote is excellent--and is the inspiration by which I want to live out 2009--but don't miss the rest that Denise has to say! While you're at it, read the rest of Phil Lawler's piece as well.

Thursday, January 01, 2009

Blessed New Year!



At Mass this morning our deacon shared the origins of the Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God, and encouraged us to deepen our devotion to the Blessed Mother.

I wish you all a happy, healthy and blessed New Year!


Wednesday, December 31, 2008

The Shuffle Your FiPod Game


I don't have an iPod; my sister would say I have a FiPod (Fake iPod.) Actually, I like my mp3 player very much except for the really weird name (it's a Creative Zen--have fun with that!)
Aimee played this game and it looked so fun I had to join in.
Here's how to play: hit SHUFFLE on your music player of choice, and post the first few lines of the first 15 songs that come up, unless they give away the title. When commenters name the tunes correctly, strike them out in the list. (The lyrics, not the commenters).
I did leave out the instrumental music that came up, but otherwise you get what you get!

1. Sitting in the morning sun; I'll be sitting when the evening comes Sittin' on the Dock of the Bay (Otis Redding)--identified by Aimee

2. It's another [TITLE OF SONG]; Starin' slowly 'cross the sky, said goodbye

3. Raven hair and ruby lips; Sparks fly from her finger tips Witchy Woman (Eagles)--identified by Aimee

4. [TITLE OF SONG]; Doesn't anybody stay in one place anymore So Far Away (Carole King)--identified by Aimee

5. [TITLE OF SONG}; I'd be in trouble if you left me now

6. I got a crack in my windshield; I know exactly how it feels

7. [TITLE OF SONG], that made the mountains rise,
That spread the flowing seas abroad, and built the lofty skies.

8. [TITLE OF SONG] God only wise, In light inaccessible hid from our eyes,

9. [TITLE OF SONG, PARTIAL TITLE OF SONG] wherever he may go, there isn't an ocean too deep. I Will Follow Him (Sister Act soundtrack, because there is NO END to my cheesiness)--identified by Aimee

10. Hey You, you lost your only friend; You can't believe you're broken heart will ever mend

11. Chestnuts roasting on an open fire; Jack Frost nipping at your nose (HOW DID THIS GET ON HERE? I HATE THIS SONG!!!)

12. A lonely child alone and wild, a cabinetmaker's son; his hands were meant for different work Leader of the Band (Dan Fogelberg)--identified by Aimee

13. Moon shinin' down through the palms, shadows movin' on the sand. Somebody whisperin' the 23rd psalm.

14. I'm sittin' in the railway station, Got a ticket for my destination

15. Oh little red bird, Come to my window sill. Been so lonesome, Shaking that morning chill

Saturday, December 27, 2008

Snagged

As I bit into the fourth Christmas cookie of the day and waited for my coffee to brew, I heard Little Brother calling me.

"Mom, what's for breakfast?"

"I dunno," I mumbled through a mouthful of cookie.

(Sounds like TheDad is getting ready to make some bacon, so at least I'll have a balanced meal.)

Friday, December 26, 2008

Delicious Day-After-Christmas Links

Some things I found this morning--definitely worth the time!

Father Tom, ofm's Christmas homily: "Eat the Cookie!"

Adoro on "O Little Town of Bethlehem" and the idea of the perfect Christmas. She stated it way better than I tried to yesterday.

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Jesus and the Griswolds

I was thinking earlier that Jesus didn't come so we could have a "Griswold Family Christmas" with the perfect tree, perfect family reunion, perfect meal. Of course, the Griswolds didn't get that either, but Clark just kept on dreaming that they would.

So even though there are parts of that movie that are a little "mature" for my first-grader, I think the Griswolds' story really does show what Christmas is all about--and what it can do to you.

In his quest for an over-the-top decorated house (indoors and out), a fabulous "cut your own tree" experience complete with carols all the way, and a terrific family dinner, Clark is trying, in his own way, to create something special for his family. He knows that Christmas is something special and he wants his family to know that too.

After all, Baby Jesus wasn't born in a nice clean hospital with all the amenities. He came into the world in the humblest of circumstances, to parents who were basically homeless and probably social outcasts due to Mary's pregnancy. He was laid in an animal's feeding trough. That's not the kind of cozy bed most moms envision for their children.

Similarly, Clark's well-planned Griswold Family Christmas goes all awry due to snobby neighbors, crazy (and senile) relatives, technical difficulties with lights, extension cords, and squirrels in the tree, a discarded cigar and a misguided boss. But in the end he learns that what matters is that the whole family is together--mess or no mess. And that's what's important.

Baby Jesus didn't come to bring us perfection here on earth. He came as an expression of the love the Father has for all of us. And he came to lead us to something better.

Merry Christmas!

Yummy


Look what Santa left in my stocking!

A couple of them got stacked on each other so you're not seeing the full effect.

I scanned these with my new all-in-one printer, which is really awesome.

Meanwhile, I'm ignoring my children, who are testing out their new Marshmallow Shooters. Whose idea was it to buy those?

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Very Merry!



The tree is up--and re-lit. Yes, re-lit. I learned the hard way that when you put 1500 lights on your Christmas tree, one extension cord is not going to cut it.

This time I've got multiple cords and all are plugged into a surge protector. I think Bill would be proud.

The gifts are wrapped, but the ones belonging to people who live here are not tagged. I did that on purpose, since some people here should answer by the name of "Snoopy." (You know who you are.) I have employed a secret code for the packages for easy tagging later.

Santa's plate of cookies is wrapped and already on the table, since we do not want to neglect the Big Guy in Red!

Today all the figures will go into our empty manger.

I'm as ready as I'm going to be. Early this morning was the last quiet time I'll get until Saturday.

Come, Lord Jesus!

And Merry Christmas to all my blog buddies, near and far!

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Sunday, December 21, 2008

117 People

This afternoon our Secular Franciscan Fraternity once again hosted our Living Nativity at Greccio celebration.

It was a little different this year. Actually, it was very different this year. First of all, we had it in a new location, as our parish merged with another parish and has leased the property where we used to hold this event.

Second, we held the celebration indoors because of the morning's very nasty weather: ice and freezing rain and then damp cold.

Third, we had to cancel the animals as we could not have a pony, a llama, two sheep and two goats in our parish gym.

BUT we found a four-year-old boy who was there with his grandparents and willing to put on a fleecy costume and walk along with the shepherds--even if he did have to exit the scene before it was over so he could take a potty break.

This year, "Baby Jesus" was a very happy little one, so Middle Sister (as Angel Gabriel) and "Mary" didn't have to go looking for the Holy Binky as in years past.

We had a nice big choir and the audience actually sang along. And there were tons of little angels and shepherds.

I did have to zip home to pick up a forgotten costume part, but made it back in plenty of time.

Our indoor Greccio was better than I expected--especially since I didn't have to freeze my fingertips off while playing my guitar.

Saturday, December 20, 2008

More Reasons

...why this may be the last year I put Real Candles in the Advent Wreath:




Match placement by Middle Sister.
Fire by Big Brother.
Heart attack by SFO Mom.

7 Random Christmas Things

Ellen tagged me for a "7 Random Christmas Things" meme.

I may have mentioned some of these before, so I'll link to that if I have.

1. I just learned this week (because my cousins are on facebook) that my parents' tradition of "Santa decorates the Christmas tree on Christmas Eve" was actually my father's family tradition, so it happened in all my cousins' households as well.

2. We only bake one kind of Christmas cookie here, and it's still too early to do those. If we bake them now, there'll be none left for Santa!

3. Other than the Nativity Scene, my favorite Christmas decoration is the set of "doily on a toilet paper tube" angels that my older children made in pre-K.

4. I love Christmas carols (not "winter carols" like "Sleigh Ride") but my all-time favorite has to be "O Holy Night," followed by "Silent Night" and "Angels We Have Heard on High."

5. TheDad likes to taunt me by "hiding" my unwrapped Christmas gift practically in plain sight. For some reason I never notice it, which mystifies everyone (including me). Of course, he's a last-minute shopper, so he never has to hide it for too long.

6. Childhood Christmas present that I still have and still use: a couple of pairs of mittens knitted by Granma. She had 15 grandchildren and I don't know how many step-grands, and every last one of them got a new pair of mittens every Christmas.

7. I'm all done shopping AND wrapping! Woohoo!

I know it's a busy time so I won't tag anyone, but if you want to play, just say so in the combox!

What My Kids Do

...while they wait for the school bus on a cold day.

I found the evidence this morning: TheDad opened the front door and immediately the windows on the storm door steamed up as the warm air hit. And I saw, in every windowpane (all 12 of them) the smiley faces that the kids had drawn on the window after blowing on it to make it steamy.

Somebody's got an appointment with some Windex this afternoon, and it's not going to be me.

Friday, December 19, 2008

Facebook is Cool

I originally joined facebook so that I could spy keep my eye on Big Brother, since he had joined facebook to share photos with friends.

I've recently discovered that I have a whole bunch of cousins, aunts, nieces, and a sister-in-law on facebook! In fact, a bunch of my cousins and I have been keeping in touch this last week, concerning my dad in the hospital. Facebook has been an easy way to keep them updated.

My dad is mystified that I am communicating with the cousins in this manner. He refuses to look at facebook, but he did say that he received a "demand" to be added as a friend, from one of his accounting students. And my sister said that if her cousins want to communicate with her, they can find some other way to do it.

I think it's fun, though. I'm enjoying the pictures of my cousins' kids, since none of us live in the same area! And I think it's good to keep in touch, no matter what way you choose.

Oh, and Big Brother--I have more friends than you. I WIN.

Thursday, December 18, 2008

From a Homily

From my pastor's homily at Tuesday daily Mass:

"We forget his presence when things are going well, but doubt his existence when things are going poorly."

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Overheard

At breakfast:

"Little Brother, would you like waffles or cereal for breakfast?"

"Is there any toast?"

"Yes."

"I want waffles, please."

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Eye Opening

Go over and lend Adoro some support today. She has a fabulous post about "rubrics v. charity" that will certainly inspire some discussion. There's a lot in there, and it definitely moved me to reflect on my attitudes and actions. I hope that in the future I will think and behave differently.

A highlight:
If we love the law so much that we ignore the needs of our neighbor, then we have also failed to love God. The two cannot be separated!


Go read the whole thing
. And respond with charity, not with venom.

Dad's Surgery Over!

My dad underwent surgery this morning to remove a tumor on the kidney. My brother just called to say that it went well; it was laparoscopic which will aid in recovery and they removed under 10% of the kidney. We have to wait to find out if it is cancer but there is a 90% chance of that.

We would all appreciate prayers for Dad during his recovery, and for Mom, whose job it will be to keep him tied down. He is not one for resting. This morning he was jogging at 4:30 AM in the sleet, since he knew he wouldn't be jogging for a while. My brother is considering removing all the front tires of all my dad's bicycles and taking them to an undisclosed location until the doctor clears him to ride.

Dad will be in the hospital probably for 3 more days.

I hope he will be OK. Thanks so much for prayers!

Monday, December 15, 2008

Cute shoes!

Today I took Middle Sister shoe shopping today to complete her Christmas outfit. Payless has BOGO right now (I love BOGO) so Little Brother came along to replace his basically-destroyed school shoes. I rejected the Silver High-Heel Shoes out of hand.



Not only did they make Middle Sister WAY taller than me, but they are also not appropriate for a girl her age. I did hear her telling Little Brother to help her beg TheDad for them, but I'm onto that trick and ahead of the game.

So she did find these really cute red shoes. I was happy to say YES to those. Although I did say that she can't wear them with jeans until AFTER Christmas, so that they'll look nice for the special day.



Meanwhile Little Brother found his black sneakers that he needs for school. But there is a TINY blue line (look really hard and you MIGHT find it) and he was all upset about that.



I told him I'd color the black line in with a Sharpie if I had to, but these were the only ones that were available in his size. He was shaking his head, saying, "My teacher is NOT going to be happy about this."

I figure that he moves so fast, his teacher will never see the blue anyway. I swear this kid is basically a blur most of the time.

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Dream Kitchen

Last night I had a really strange dream. In it, we moved to some really old house somewhere. I don't remember too many details about the house itself (other than that it was really big, really old, and I think the roof was a little leaky) but I can remember the kitchen clear as day. I could probably even draw a diagram of it!

First of all, the kitchen was enormous. It was easily the size of my living room and dining room, plus a little extra! Probably it had once been two rooms because there was a little section in the middle of the room where the walls "came in" a little. It had high ceilings (probably 12-foot) and the walls were all white tile with black trim. There was a white vintage gas stove and room for both my refrigerators as well as my upright freezer!

In my dream, we had purchased the home from the estate of an older woman who had lived there alone. She must have been quite the gardener, because taking up about four linear feet of wall space was a large display of vegetable and herb seeds. She had the packets all sorted out, as well as some seeds she was drying from her own harvest.

Many kitchen tools and a worktable were still in the kitchen and, along with the seeds, were ours to use. Of course, in my dream I am just as bad a gardener as I am in real life, so I knew those seeds would go to waste!

Down at the end of the room was an ancient board with coat pegs. I'm wondering if that was actually designed to hold servants' coats. I planned on using it to hang my apron collection and maybe some spare oven mitts.

Often, I dream of places where I have already been--but not in this case. I can't remember ever having been in a kitchen like this. TheDad says that maybe I was dreaming of our future home.

Who cares what the rest of the place looked like? The kitchen was awesome!

Fashion Rant

Today I ordered some clothes for my Big Kids to wear on Christmas. I'd taken care of Little Brother's needs a couple of weeks ago. He got a new sweater that he can wear with the khaki dress pants and a turtleneck that he already owns. So he's all set. Big Brother only needed a shirt, and since he just likes wearing a golf shirt and khakis, his shopping was done in a flash.

Then it was time for Middle Sister. Gone are the days when I could buy any dress with a "twirly skirt" and she was good to go. She's been emailing and IMing me with possibilities and I have rejected each and every one. A halter dress with net top, or spaghetti straps, or deep V-neck and sleeveless--in December? For a 12-year-old?



For a while I thought it was just because she had outgrown the girls' sizes and now had to shop in Juniors, but when I peeked back at the girls' dresses they were not much better. And almost nothing had sleeves. Most of the junior dresses barely hit fingertip length. How do they sit in those things?

And then we've got the shoes, because nothing says "Merry Christmas" like above-the-knee high-heeled hooker boots. (She doesn't understand why she can't have them).

Fortunately we did find a dress we could agree upon, though Middle Sister insists that she's not happy with this choice. But it's modest enough, provided she wears it with some leggings. And she'll get a new pair of flats to go with it.



It would be a lot easier if she'd just wear pants and a sweater....

Saturday, December 13, 2008

Things to be thankful for

When you're under the weather you have time to think of all kinds of things to be thankful for!
--a caring family
--Little Brother, who saw the bandage on my hand where the IV went in, and has been very concerned about my injured HAND!
--TheDad, who has been working hard with work and his startup business and Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts AND doing all the kid-shuffling these past couple of days
--a big pot of homemade soup from a friend
--a freshly-opened box of crispy saltines to go with the soup (I swear, saltines only taste good on the day you open the box)
--enough food in the fridge, pantry and freezer that we haven't had to have a takeout run

I wonder if they miss me at Shop Rite? I haven't been there in over a week!

Thursday, December 11, 2008

I Love This Comic Strip



Zits is such a great comic. I AM THAT MOM, just with shorter hair.

Big Brother tells me that his long-suffering AP Language teacher reads this every day. She puts up with him and his friends in her classroom for lunch daily so I guess she can relate to this as much as I do--if not more! She's got teen boys times ten every day for lunch.

Awesome

My friend SFO Girl called here late this afternoon and announced that she was on her way here with a big pot of Chicken Noodle Soup.

Boy, it was good.

And not only did it take the heat off TheDad for coming up with a dinner for tonight, it's going to make my life easier tomorrow morning when it's time to pack lunches. Guess what's for lunch tomorrow?

I might even have some for breakfast, it was that good.

Prayers work

Thanks for the prayers; I got home early this afternoon, had some lunch (and coffee!), slept a while (and this coffee is probably NOT decaf; I doubt TheDad asked for decaf for me) and that's that.

Keep the prayers coming for our Franciscan Deacon. Yesterday he was storing some stuff to be used at our Greccio (coming up a week from Sunday) and he tripped, landing on his knee and tearing the quadricep. He will likely need surgery.

And I thank you for the prayers on my behalf. I should be A-OK in a day or so.

Heading Out

In keeping with the theme of "you never know what's going to happen during Advent, so don't plan the perfect one" I am off for a minor outpatient procedure.

This means I haven't had any coffee today.

I'll make up for that later. You can depend on it.

The kindness of your prayers would be appreciated!